Thursday, August 1, 2013

Lessons from Octavia Waight

Volunteer Post: Sarah

One of my favorite projects these past 2 months is working at the Octavia Waight Center which is a nursing home and a retirement home for the elderly (ages 60- 105) who's family can't take care of them. The center is located in a remote spot of town which is a calf crushing hike to get there! I've learned alot of life lessons and stories going to Ocatvia twice a week. We get there bright and early to help Dorothy, a little old Swedish woman, do physical therapy weights and stretches with the residents. She reminds us we need to take special care because some of the people are blind, or deaf, or suffer from some sort of dementia. You definitely have to have a certain tenderness of heart to help them strap on weights and stretch out their old joints.

One older man, Vladimir has a condition where he can’t use his legs anymore and I carefully take his feet out of his shoes, grab a stool next to him and slowly stretch out his legs onto my lap and rotate his feet in circles as we talk about his days working at the lumber yards loading up barges and the different comrades he knew. Sometimes it’s a bit frustrating because I can’t understand most of the resident because they couldn't really talk clearly anymore or they kept combining english, spanish, and creole. If I can't understand them I just sat there holding their hand, smiling and listening. Some of them are hilariously spunky and they are all so kind giving me hugs and kisses. One of my favorites is Owen Jones who had been a traveling musician since the age of 15. He grew up in the jungle and he told me all about his passion for music and some of his stories from growing up. When I left he held my hand crying with joy that I had come over and asked him to play his guitar for me. I then get all the gossip from Isabel who just turned 80 this month and is the last member of her family. Isabel and I can talk for hours about her life growing up in Belize in a thatched house and then when she was a nanny in Chicago for 20 years earning money for her family back home. I've really come to love those mornings at Octavia and things I’ve learned from each individual person’s story.